Proverbs 17:27 (NIV)
A man of knowledge uses words with restraint, and
a man of understanding is even-tempered.
James 1:19-20 (NIV)
My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone
should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, for man’s
anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires.
Have
you ever heard the expression, “God gave us two ears and one mouth so that we
would listen twice as much as we speak?” I heard that one or a variation of it
often when I was a child. But then again, I think I needed to hear it often—very
often! I think I’ll always remember my third-grade report card because the
teacher’s note stated, “Dotty likes to visit with her neighbors.” It was my teacher’s way of letting my parents
know how talkative I was in class. The irony is that years later I became a
teacher.
However,
today’s passage is not just about the balance between listening and speaking.
It is also about keeping one’s temper in check. In a way, the two concepts are
linked together. When we are too quick to blurt out the first thing that comes
to mind, misunderstandings often occur, and this can lead to anger on the part
of one or both participants. Taking time to slow down and listen—truly
listen—leads to understanding. Understanding what has been said enables us to
choose words wisely in our response. Unfortunately, every news venue lately seems
determined to report countless negative examples in our nation—lack of
restraint, lack of wisely chosen words, and just plain anger. Now is the time
for us, as followers of Christ, to lead by example.
Gracious Heavenly Father,
Your word shows us that speaking in haste
seldom leads to a positive outcome. Forgive us when we talk too much and fail
to listen enough. Guide us to become examples of restraint and understanding,
so that in all things, we might draw others to you.
In Christ’s name we pray, Amen.
Respectfully written and submitted by
Dotty Willmon, Resurrection Christian—looking for
the blessed hope of Christ’s return!
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