A Good Response

Write From My Heart

August 25, 2020

A Good Response

Colossians 4:5-6 (NIV)

Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.

            This scripture is frequently used for devotionals but perhaps that is because we need to hear it often. There is actually quite a bit of information packed into this text. We begin by recognizing that being wise is not meant as a free pass to be smart-alecky or snarky with others. Of course, the intended meaning is to  use sound judgement and have a sense of deep understanding. In todays terms we might use the adage “think before you speak” as a good guideline for communicating with others. Having said that, the second portion of that verse tells us to make the most of every opportunity. The smart-alecky or snarky person will indeed make the most of every opportunity to spout something negative or cutting. The person of restraint will use each opportunity to show good judgement and deep understanding.

            The second verse in this text uses the analogy of salt. The same caustic substance that stings and burns when it comes in contact with an open sore is also used to preserve and protect from spoilage. The smart-alecky or snarky person will use words to sting and burn. Our goal should be to use our words to preserve and protect, and to do this always in a manner full of grace. When you think about it, the phrase “salt of the earth” indicates someone who is dependable and steadfast. The phrase “grain of salt” often indicates use of common sense. And this, dear friends, brings us full circle back to the beginning.

            Our goal in good conversation and good response to others—whether verbal or in texting—is to use sound judgment based upon deep understanding, to preserve and protect in a manner consistent with grace, and to be steadfast and dependable. There are plenty of smart-alecky and snarky people out there ready to pounce on anyone with an opinion other than their own. We are called to be a better example. And for the record, yes, this is one of those devotionals I will be re-reading frequently! Feel free to join me and together we will learn the grace of knowing how to answer others with a good response.